We paid off another credit card this month bringing us down to one! We’re readjusting our finances again to better suit our needs, and I just wish there were some way to bring more money in. Since that is somewhat out of our control, we are focusing on the money going out and cutting back again. Weekly groceries are back down to $110 and trips to Goodwill with the kids have been discontinued. My kids don’t need toys. My kids need attention.
We (Audi and I) presented them with an option for Christmas. We could go to the Indoor Water Park (CoCo Key) again for Christmas, but they wouldn’t get any more presents from Mommy and Daddy. Jayden responded, “But I like presents.” Don’t we all? I then explained that he would still get presents from Santa and all his grandmas and grandpas, but his present from Mommy and Daddy would be getting to go to the water park. He was okay with that, and they are both very excited.
I think Audi and I have been doing a good job about not being nearsighted about our journey. It seems to me that I’m the one with the “wannas” more so than he, but we understand the price behind the want now. We see the destination, but also have a fair estimate about the road leading to it. It’s not instant, but it will be worth it. Like all things worth having in life, we’ll get them by being willing to pay price of time and hard work.
It’s also nice that we are enjoying our journey. When I was younger, it always seemed like I was waiting for my life to start: waiting for high school to start…waiting to get my license…waiting for high school to be over…. and when that time came my life will be great. But it’s always one thing after another. Once I’m married…once I have kids…once I have a job, then things will be awesome. Then I’ll be happy. After a while you realize that these things you’re waiting for are your life and who wants to go through life feeling like things are never finished? If you don’t have any obstacles to overcome, you’re either really bored or dead. So bring on the miniature disasters cause I don’t sweat the small stuff.